What did I do wrong?

So you have a great amazing time everything seems to be going great then the phone stops ringing or he decides that you are not the woman  for him. What comes next is insane and crazy we spend all our time talking to our girl friends about what we did wrong. Going over and over every detail  of the last time we saw this person. Then we spend all night laying in bed wondering what exactly we did wrong. Was it something we said that scared them off ? was it something we did?  We spend all these hours going over every single detail and trying to figure things out. The truth of the matter is simple we did not do anything wrong! Why does it have to be us that did something wrong? Why do we as women devalue ourselves ? If this man could not appreciate you for everything that you are then was he even worth it?  The answer is No . We as women for some reason are pre programmed to not truly see our self worth. We always think it is something we did when that is not always the case.  The hardest yet the best thing we can do is  truly realize our self worth. See ourselves as the prize that we are instead of inferior to any man. We can talk all we want about how much better we were than this man and how he didn't deserve someone like us but the truth is we need to truly believe it.